Living the way you like doesn't mean that you are happy. It is not how you weigh and judge people around you. It is not how you see things that matters. It is not what you already have. It is not how popular you are at school or at the office. It is not how intelligent you are or how many medals you have. It is not the number of achievements you acquired. It is not how many friends you have right now..how sure are you that they are your friends? It is not how important your study in a class. It is not the number of girls/guys you made laugh/cry. It is not how you write. It is not how you express your feelings to anyone or to your only one. It is not being a leader/member in an organization that alots more attention to you (or ignores). It is not the number of girl/boyfriends you had.
It is how you serve God in His way.